Many of us have loved animals ever since we were little, but we can’t say that for everyone. It can be a problematic situation when one family member wants a pet, but not everyone is. Bringing a new pet home will be a huge step, and everyone in the family should have a say about it. There are many benefits of having a new pet, but the responsibility should not be taken lightly. If your family is contemplating adding a new addition to your home, here are some things that can help you decide.
1. When the Entire Family Is on Board
Getting a new pet because of one family member’s whims is really a bad idea. Imagine bringing a cat home and then realizing that your wife is terrified of cats. Or getting a Siberian husky, but your youngest kid is allergic to fur. Before you bring a pet home, make sure that everyone in your family is fully committed to getting one. Having a pet home is an exciting and fulfilling experience, however, if someone is not on board, it will be hard for everyone, including the pet.
Don’t just quickly assume that everyone will like the new pet. It would be best if you’ll do a serious sit down with everyone right from adults, teenagers, and young kids. If everyone made a mutual decision to add a new member to the family, then it is time that you can bring one home.
2. When the Family Is Financially Stable
You should be aware that the expense of having a pet can make a significant impact on your financial budgets. Having a pet is not just feeding and bathing them. You need to pay for many things like toys, regular check-ups, vaccinations, and medications. Moreover, microchipping, licensing, spaying or neutering can be expensive. Some people even compare getting a pet to having a baby.
Considering that you will get a cat or dog, they have a long life expectancy, so the expenses can undoubtedly pile up. You can see on www.charitypaws.com that they are continually raising funds for animals in need. And to raise money, they even do fun fundraising ideas for never-ending recurrent expenses. If your family is ready to spend the extra cash, and you can say that you are financially stable, then you have the ability to care for the animals.
3. When Everyone Can Take on the Responsibility and Give Time
Pets require a lot of time from their owners, they need to be fed, bathe, walk, or exercise and play with. They also need to be trained and be given affection. Everyone should be able to give time and take responsibility for the animal. And it should be the same with everyone, it is not enough if only two people can commit to it. What if they are away or sick? Who will take care of the pet?
Shoving responsibility to one person is never a good idea, it can annoy the person and can cause neglect to your pet. If all of your family members show readiness to give time and take on responsibility, then it can be safe to say that you are a lot of steps nearer to getting your pet.
4. When Everyone Are Comfortable Around Animals
As mentioned previously, it will be a terrible idea to get a pet if someone is scared, allergic, or plainly just don’t like them. If the issue is just being afraid, help them build up the comfort level around animals. People who are not comfortable or scared around animals will be most likely to mistake and hurt the pets or themselves. Ask everyone if they are willing to do a trial caring with friends, family, or neighbor’s pet. You can also visit animal shelters or even zoos to check if everyone in your family can be calm around them. Lastly, don’t force your family members to touch or interact with animals and let them come to terms with it at their own pace.
5. When Every Family Member Is Ready to Learn
Having something new in your life, no matter what it is, can be a challenging task. All should be willing to engage in learning how to deal and how to care for the pets. Every owner should know the pet’s proper nutrition, vet requirements, training, and everything about safety and health. If everyone is willing to learn for the sake of their pet, they can raise a happy and healthy companion for life.
We hope that upon reading this article, we helped you decide if you are now prepared to bring a new pet home. Just bear in mind that pet deserves our utmost love, attention, and even respect. Have fun, and good luck on your new pet journey!